TMI Tuesday: Playtime

That time of the week again!

1. DARING: What are your 50 shades?

1. I enjoy the idea that my partner wants to inflict pain on me that:
a. makes me curious
b. is titillating and sexually arousing
c. that leaves me screaming and/or crying because that’s the way I like it

I'm not sure if I would call myself a masochist, but I do get turned on by certain types of pain, especially long, slow, and hard scratches. But I have to be in the mood for it, otherwise it just hurts.

2. Do you like being forced to dress or act in a way that is humiliating? If yes, please describe. If no, why not?

Nope. That doesn't appeal to me at all. My ego is too sensitive for something like that so it would probably piss me off more than it would turn me on.

3. Do you like seeing bruises, scars, or marks that were caused during sex on either you or your partner? What kind of marks?

YES! That was my favorite part about being with my ex. She was a huge masochist and loved for me to bite her and stuff. If she didn't pressure me into so much of that stuff I probably would have enjoyed it more. But anyway, whenever there was a scar or bruise on her the next day (and she was prone to bruise easily) she would proudly display it to anyone who'd look -- much to my embarrassment at the time. For me, I have this strange obsession with the body healing itself, so seeing marks that I've made or that were made on me is very sensual.

4. Would you like to be forced to do sexual things that you don’t necessarily like to do? Yes or No.

No. If I don't like to do something, then I don't like to do it. I'm very much willing to negotiate my limits, but to be outright forced to do something I don't like (necessarily or no) is the fastest way to get me to cool off (I learned this from the same ex in #3). BUT! I like the idea of being seduced into doing something I wouldn't normally do. Any type of public sex tends to fall under this category. I like the idea of being so turned on by a partner that I'd have to have him/her right then and there.

5. Do you want to be forced to watch your lover with someone else? Yes, No or It depends.

Nope. Once again, being forced to do stuff isn't really sexy to me.

6. What dirty (sometimes inappropriate) things do you like to say to your sexual partner?

I've never really done a lot of dirty talk with a partner. When I used to have phone sex, the girl I was on the phone with did all the talking while I provided the... um, sound effects. I do enjoy hearing it though. Well, only if it's good.

Bonus: Finish this statement: I like being powerful in bed because I like to tease.

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